Asking well is really, really, really hard, and kind of exhausting, though.

There it is, the rad­ical offering of 21st cen­tury com­puting, here at last: ask for what you want. It takes prac­tice! And, hon­estly, a cer­tain audacity.

'Ask for what you want' is a key skill for the 21st century ↗